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Old School

This arrived on our doorstep yesterday:

This pram has been in my husband’s family since he was born.  His parents used it not only for him, but his two brothers as well.  Also, his aunt used it with her three kids.

It is so unbelieveably gorgeous, I can’t believe the thing is over three decades old.  I actually asked Hawk if his parents had had it recovered, because the canvas covering is flawless.  He said nope, they just took really good care of it (also evidenced by how it was wrapped when we got it - you have never seen so much bubble wrap in all your life).  I love the idea of pushing Áine around the neighborhood in the same pram her daddy and her uncles rode in when they were tiny.

In other news, I am now thirty two weeks pregnant - a whole eight months.  And boy do I feel it.  My belly is reaching biblical proportions and I have nearly perfected the pregnant waddle.  My friend Maija bought me a support belt to help hold the belly up and it helps the muscle strain, but not the awkwardness.  I can’t believe I still have about eight weeks to go; I can’t imagine how big I’m going to be by the time she’s ready to be born.  I’m also getting really impatient to meet my daughter!  I can’t wait to hold her and look at her little face for the first time.

I also have a touch of mild bronchitis (not fun - if you can avoid getting a chest cold while pregnant, I would suggest you do so) and I think I pulled a muscle in my lower belly from coughing so much.  Ow.

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Showered with Love

My baby shower was this past weekend, and it was one of the most lovely afternoons I’ve ever spent.  About twenty of my favorite women, all in one room, and all there to celebrate the imminent arrival of my daughter.  My best friends Kristen and Christine organized the shower, and it was great - yummy food, a delicious black and white cake from my favorite bakery in Silverlake.  So many lovely gifts.  My friends know me so well - there was a big stuffed woolly sheep (I have a thing about woolly sheep), there were also pink bloomers printed with skulls and crossbones, complete with ruffles on the butt, and in honor of my grease monkey husband, a onesie with a motorcycle print.

The lovely Stacy was also in attendance, and she gave me a beautiful handmade necklace with my daughter’s birthstone (if she is born on time!), and her name - Áine.  It’s pronounced Awn-ya, and we chose the Irish Gaelic spelling, mainly because we liked it, but I also have quite a bit of the Irish in me from my Dad’s side.  It means brilliance or radiance, and in Irish lore, Áine is the goddess of love, growth and cattle.  Can’t forget the cattle!

It was so overwhelming, to see so much love for me, my husband and my daughter in one room.  Both my mom and Hawk’s mom traveled to town in order to be there, and that was the best.  Friends from work, friends from school, friends from the internet, friends I’ve met through other friends, all together in celebration of new life.  So many people love Áine already.  She is one lucky little girl, and I am one very blessed mommy, for many, many different reasons.

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Beach House

Some pics from last weekend in Malibu:

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Happy Thanksgiving!

I am grateful for so many things this year. This year was particularly difficult for so many reasons, but I have an amazing (not to mention handsome, sexy, brilliant…I could keep going) husband who stood by my side through all of it. I also have wonderfully supportive parents and friends, so above all else I am thankful for having that love in my life.

But here are a few other things I am thankful for that aren’t so - for lack of a better word - obvious:

I am thankful for the gift that was Maggie. I am thankful that I got to spend almost five years with her as part of our family. I learned so much from her, her love of life, the joyfulness with which she approached everything. Her loyalty and unconditional love and affection, her tenacity.

I am thankful for the gift that is my job, or more specifically, the gift that is the amazing women I work with. I’ve worked there during the most difficult time of my life thus far, and they have taught me how to be strong and compassionate through adversity. I would not be the woman I am today without the four of them in my life.

Finally, I am thankful for the gift that is my blog, because it has given me an outlet for my feelings surrounding everything that has happened this year that I would not have had otherwise, given me a space to process my thoughts, and it has led some amazing people my way who have renewed my faith in humanity with their willingness to reach out to a perfect stranger. I am thankful for all of you who are my “internet friends”, who I have never met but who share a little bit of yourselves on your own blogs, that make me feel not quite so alone in this big, scary, messy, wonderful world of ours.

Happy Thanksgiving, all of you. I hope today finds you warm, safe, and loved.

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Happy Birthday Mama!

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Happy Birthday to my beautiful mother. You are always an inspiration and joy in my life.

I love you!

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Beachy Goodness

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A Malibu sunset.

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My brother on his 25th birthday. Rock on.

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Hill Fam Four.

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Nate’s triumphant emergence from the Pacific.

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Hawk and Jason, our resident Mer-Men.

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Knuckles and Fiona. Knuckles looks a little tired, but Fiona could go all day.

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Nate

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Hawk enjoying a post-BBQ cigar.

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Nate’s friend Dan, aka my shorter, Jewish brother.

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Me and Hawk.

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Me playing Coastal Cowgirl.

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My beautiful mother.

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Cormac, our best friends’ little boy, after being attacked with sunscreen by his mother.

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Cormac realizing that sand doesn’t taste very good.

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Hawk and Cormac enjoying the ocean.

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Hit the Beach

This past weekend was great. My folks are in town for their annual vacation in Malibu, so that means that we get to spend a week hanging out on the beach. We had a bunch of friends come out, fired up the BBQ, and had numerous celebrity sightings, even if they were all of Tony Danza. Which really isn’t that impressive.

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32 Years

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad!

I know it hasn’t always been easy. Maybe it’s never been easy. What I admire most about your marriage is that you’ve never hidden that fact. You’ve told us how you’ve had to work at it. And you have worked at it - you never gave up, even if sometimes you thought about it. But through kids and work troubles and grandma issues and good old fashioned husband and wife communication issues, you guys have been committed to each other for more than thirty years. Not to mention that you raised a couple of fine (if I do say so myself) children who love you dearly. Now that I am a married woman myself (going on seven years now), I can truly say that you taught me what a marriage is supposed to be.

You make a wonderful team and I love you both deeply.

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Let the Celebration Begin!

Our family gathering is now complete that we have picked up my brother from the airport, and now we commence with the preparations for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. I just made Peppermint Ice Cream (yum!) that will be served with profiteroles and hot fudge sauce (double yum!) on Christmas Eve. We are going to decorate the Christmas tree in a little while, and this afternoon I am going to go have coffee with my old friend that I just got back in contact with. I spoke with her on the phone a little while ago and it was like no time had passed at all. Very cool.

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A Few Pictures from Thanksgiving

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Hawk and his Mama.

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(That’s Nick up on top of the rock).

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We found a hermit crab in the tidepools and Cormac thought it was pretty cool.

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